'I spent 40 dollars ordering from a cookie store': Entitled 5th grader continually disrupts teacher's class, faces petty end of year revenge

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    "His behavior became difficult to handle❞
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    r/Teachers u/PellyPelican • 15h The End of the School Year Brings out my Pettiness Humor
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    Today, I officially did the most petty thing that I have ever done as a teacher.
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    One of my (fifth grade) students has been a pain to me the entire school year. At the beginning of the year, his quirks were bearable, but as he became more comfortable in my class, his behaviors became more and more difficult to handle. Today, every single time I was trying to lecture the class, he would shout out until I acknowledged him, making it impossible for me to teach anything to the whole class. With 99% of students, I would have them taken to the office if they were continuing to act
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    For a while, he was on task, but as the rest of the students began working on some practice problems, I went back to talk to him about his behavior. As soon as I sat down with him, he started to ignore everything I said and just call me names. While we were sitting together, my watch started lighting up with text notifications and he started asking me about what each notification was. So I told him that it was a notification about cookies I had ordered for every student that was being respectful
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    He accused me of lying (which, in the moment, I was) so after he and I were done talking, I spent 40 dollars ordering from a cookie store in the area to buy every student in the class except for him a treat.
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    When they arrived, his jaw dropped as I gave them to every other student as a thanks for being respectful and for working so hard on their end-of-year testing.
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    Definitely the most petty thing I've ever done, and I would spend that 40 dollars again in a heartbeat at this point to get the same reaction.
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    30 Flaming_tofu 13h I do almost the same exact thing. I teach culinary, so for every student who helped clean the kitchen, do dishes, laundry, etc, I gave them extra credit points and left over baked goods. They walked out, and all the kids in the class were, "Where did you get that. I want one." What can I say, I love bribing my best kids with sweet treats.
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    flooperdooper4 15h Write your name on your paper Tbh this was very iconic of you. Hopefully this was a learning experience for him!
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    PellyPelican OP • 15h Thanks! Haha I definitely hope he takes a good lesson from it.
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    kmataj27 12h School counselor here. I did something similar today. I gave candy only to students who were respectful to my intern who presented to their class today. I'm over a few kids in this class. Not everyone gets a trophy... sorry.
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    Graphicnovelnick 13h I did the same thing, but with donuts, and I planned it on the day the kid was out so that none of his friends could share with him. When he came back the next day he yelled, "Why do you only do fun things when I'm not around?!" I slow-turned to him and looked him dead in the eye. "I CAN do fun things for these kids BECAUSE you're not in the room. When you are in my class you act up, and then we can't do fun things." The icing on the petty-cake was that a lot of his classmat
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    Mindandhand 14h HS | Tech/Shop | WA May 1st is my mental cut off date for "get your together." You've been at high school long long enough doesn't fly. No mercy. for you to know that
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    fitzryp 14h I aspire to be this level of petty
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    snapsjamie55 12h We had a birthday party with cupcakes and a fun time, the two friends who spit corn at each other during lunch however did not get to attend. I have been wrestling with going back and forth of was I too harsh or did I do the right thing and follow through...thank you for this post, it was the right thing to do. lol
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    Holiday-Rip-1969 14h Omg lol I hope you got a couple for yourself!!
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    FAFO. Boring Philosophy160 14h And so worth all 4,000 cents.
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    springvelvet95 13h Well that doesn't align with our PBIS overlords. You're supposed to praise him just for even being there and breathing, right? Reply 137 Journeyman42 3h HS Biology Positive behavioral reinforcements can be more effective at promoting positive behaviors than negative reinforcements or punishments do at discouraging negative behaviors. But...BUT...it shouldn't be the only kind of reinforcement used for classroom management! It's just one tool that can be used, just as a toolbox
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    chunkycow 7h I did something similar last month with my younger students. I told the kids that it was my birthday and I was going to get pizza, but if they were not going to be good, they wouldn't get any. The kids try to behave even better than they normally do but one of them kept still being and disrespectful despite my multiple warnings. The pizza came and he didn't get a slice. You could see the look in his face when everyone else was eating pizza. It may be petty, but it worked. Same stude

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